DON’T DELAY MARRIAGE.
You will be wondering, what is tmc is all about ?
Why this topic today .. we must balance everything in other not to make mistake in life..
most of my female friends has started saying , I belong to TMC …smile
let me belong to you guys , once you guys are smiling , I’m okey with that ….
my ladies, listen now.
Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.
1. I’m too young for that
2. Who cares about marriage
3. I’m focused on my books
4. I want to gather some money first
5. Marriage is full of problems
6. You’re too old for me. (A guy of 30)
7. I want to hustle small
These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.
No problem, God is watching you
At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;
1. How far?
2. Don’t you have any one yet?
3. Are you not planning to get married?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married?
5. Don’t you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.
You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don’t want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.
No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
My sister, it matters a lot.
Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she’s a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say
1. My brother, I’m not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
You don’t expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.
Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.
Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and time.
There’s no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven’t been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE
Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don’t disturb the peace of God. Cos, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.
It’s never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord.
Change your mindset and turn to Him now, before it’s too late
Please share this message to save a sister’s future.💚